It's not always plain sailing.
Regardless of your skills, there will be times when whatever you do, you lose. I went through such a period. When I looked back at my trades, I could see no reason why I shouldn't have made those trades. And yet, if I'd made the exact opposite trades I would have been on a strong winning streak.
Making analysis discoveries like this can severely dent confidence. We like to think of ourselves as knowledgeable traders. We have a pretty good understanding of the market, and importantly, we know that we cannot be winners all the time. We know that with the wins there will be losses. But, that's OK, it is all part of the game, and if you can't take the losses, then don't play the game.
That is why, when we make the wrong calls consistently, it makes us think that our whole concept of trading is faulty. We thought we had knowledge, maybe it was luck after all. Maybe we don't know anything of value at all. Has this happened to you?
If it hasn't, I would guess that you've not been trading very long.
It certainly happened to me, and the consequences are dire.
Once the confidence goes, more bad trades follow, only adding to the misery. What do we do though?
If we truly believe that we do have a pretty good handle on the markets then we must accept that sometimes they move against us for reasons that we just don't understand.
Let's look at a simple analogy: the complete randomness of tossing a coin. We know that it is always a 50:50 game. We have absolute understanding that there is an equal chance of one side up or the other. So, if someone were to offer an ongoing bet even slightly in our favour, for instance 52:48 then we'd be mad not to take it. But, what happens when the coin toss goes against us for 6 times? What do we do on the 7th. Our decision can tell us a lot about our trading attitude.
Some people, would carry on regardless, and obviously get back on an even keel. Others might see this as an opportunity 'It can't possible go against us again' so they increase their bet, safe in the knowledge that they will win this time and recoup all their losses. Others may change their decision making process to support these results and change their bet accordingly. Then there will be those who just don't understand what is going on and take a little time out until things settle down.
It is quite easy to see looking at this coin toss example how foolish some of those decisions would be. Just because the coin has fallen the same side six doesn't increase the chance that it will change on the next toss; it is still 50:50 -- it could still catch you out.
So the best decision would seem to be carry on regardless.
Nevertheless, being on the receiving end of such inexplicable losses can play havoc with our state of mind and consequently our ability to make sound judgements. There is also, a very small chance -- just a small one -- that the person tossing the coin knows something we don't. Perhaps he's discovered a way to influence the results, perhaps he's learned a special way to flip it in his favour. Either one of these two reasons would suggest to us that it is prudent to stop playing for a while, so that -- at the very least -- we can re-enter the game when we've got a steady head on our shoulders.
So, when you find that whatever decisions you make are wrong, just take a step back. Perhaps paper trader for a while, but don't risk any more money until you feel confident again. There's no harm in that. It is a sign that you are in control and that you will not be adversely affected by whatever the market throws at you.